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I want to thank all of you who have empowered me to give voice over the last ten years in my role of (hold on-take a breath...this is a mouthful ‘Provincial Systems Level; Lived Experience/Family Advocate, Speaker, Educator & Adviser’-PROVIDING EVIDENCE, leadership and advice from community to systems policy, planning & governance for mental health, addiction, trauma, grief/loss and bereavement who additionally provides peer support, education and outreach to community and agencies.

  • I would like to particularly thank the Ministry of Health, Centre for Addiction & Mental Health (CAMH) & EENet for always providing me unique and meaningful opportunities to participate.

Pete’s overdose death:

7 days before Pete died; he was admitted to an acute care psychiatric ward under what was supposed to be ‘supervised watch’.  He was not allowed off ward but his hospital roommate was (who also had serious drug addiction issues) and within days, Pete’s drug of choice was snuck back in, when this hospital roommate returned from a 2 hr pass.  For various reasons, Pete’s condition was not noticed by hospital staff even with two warnings from me that day. 

 

The lethal combination of opioids mixed with the newly prescribed high powered psychiatric drugs, administered on ward, was missed and on Dec 23 2001, Pete died while a patient in the acute care section of that psychiatric ward.  The autopsy and coroner’s investigation proved that Pete, alone in his hospital bed, was dying over the course of 6 hours prior to the fatal aspiration and his death.  Nobody noticed. 

 

Optimal wellness is indeed a work in progress for all of us.  We need to continue to culture a sensitive and responsive approach to each personal journey and pain.  We need to continue to create that safety zone that nurtures self identification, provides hope and eventually stamps out stigma.

 

If we, as community members can be supported at all ages and stages of life, then we can find our authentic self and our true power.  With that we can define our reality and choose our destiny. We can move into a life full of possibility, wellness and inspire others to reach their potential. It is about saving lives and quality of lives. It is an opportunity to embrace what should matter to all of us- The welfare of our community and our future.

Attached is Pete's memorial which will be in our local Georgetown paper this week....

Pete's GOAT memorial Pete 2014

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Thanks to all of you! Jason, thanks for the plug about the blog series I did (with you as my fabulous editor)

I have listed the series,'Bringing it Home' in order with titles/ links:

 

Blog One: The cultural shift from storytelling to evidence

Lived experience/'family' informing the evidence chain
http://eenet.ca/bringing-it-home-one/

Blog Two: Three Fights and One Epilogue
1) Fighting Stigma  2) Fighting Cyclical Shadows  3) Fighting Toxic Inaction

http://eenet.ca/bringing-it-home-two/

Blog Three: Peering at a Problem
The 'evolution' of Peer Support, Lived Experience & Family Advocacy, and Other Hats 
http://eenet.ca/bringing-it-home-three/

Blog Four: A Tale of Two Rabbits: Drawing Parallels to Alice in Wonderland
Parallels/ analogy to the worlds of addiction, mental health and grief/loss
http://eenet.ca/bringing-it-home-four/

Blog Five: Let's Talk Big Bad Wolves

Re-triggered trauma & negotiating safety for the lived experience/'family' voice

http://eenet.ca/bringing-it-home-five/

 

Blog Six: Meaningful Engagement (and Winnie The Pooh)
Exploring meaningful engagement (who defines that?) for lived experience/’family’

http://eenet.ca/bringing-it-home-six/

 

 

Betty-Lou Kristy

 

Lived Experience/‘Family’ Advocate- Mental Health, Addiction, Trauma & Bereavement

 

PROVIDING EVIDENCE from community to systems level policy, planning & governance

 

 

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